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In print for thirty-five years, Rebuilding is the number one trusted resource on divorce recovery. Now, this classic self-help book is available in an updated fourth edition, featuring a new introduction by coauthor Robert Alberti.

If you are going through a painful breakup or divorce, you may feel like the life you once knew is crashing down around you. You need help to gather the pieces and “rebuild” yourself from the ground up. Rebuilding features Bruce Fisher’s “divorce process rebuilding blocks,” a proven-effective, nineteen-step process for putting one’s life back together after divorce.

Now the most widely-used approach to divorce recovery, the “rebuilding” model makes the process healthier and less traumatic for those who are divorcing or divorced—and their children. Over two decades of research and practice are combined with feedback from hundreds of thousands of men and women who have used the book on their own, or in one of thousands of Fisher divorce recovery seminars worldwide.

This book also includes Fisher’s detailed Healing Separation model—the first of its kind to offer couples a healing alternative to the usual slide from separation to divorce. This fourth edition, revised with the assistance of psychologist and marriage and family therapist Robert Alberti, continues Bruce’s tradition of straight-to-the-heart response to the needs of his clients and readers.

If you’ve been struggling to rebuild your life after a divorce, this book offers just the right balance of shoulder-to-cry-on and kick-in-the-pants self-help!

Publisher Reviews
  • “One of the best books written for the divorcing person ... warm, engaging.”
    —the Behavior Therapist
  • “Deals with the everyday feelings and problems of the divorcing and divorced ... hits just the right balance between seriousness and optimism.”
    Florence Kaslow, PhD, Journal of Marital and Family Therapy
  • “A handbook for the divorcing and divorced that is authentic and which they can employ in the rebuilding of their own lives.”
    Esther Oshiver Fisher, JD, Journal of Divorce
  • “Warm, simple, and direct ... this is a book you will not want to put down.”
    A.R.E. Press
  • “Warm, simple, and direct ... this is a book you will not want to put down.”
    A.R.E. Press
  • “If you're putting your life back together after a divorce, you need this book! It could be just what you're looking for to help you get your life back on track. I found it to be very interesting and informative.”
    Jeanette Wright, Borger News-Herald
  • “Shows you how to move from denial to freedom and even another love.”
    Jann Mitchell, The Sunday Oregonian
  • “Exactly what you need to help put your life back together during and after a divorce.”
    Divorce Magazine
  • “Fisher and Alberti accompany you on your journey of recovery as they teach you in plain English how to move forward after the ending of an important love relationship. They are like Sherpas guiding you through the difficult mountain passes and over the perilous ravines. With kindness and optimism, they help you find your way.”
    Jeff Zimmerman, PhD, ABPP, psychologist and coauthor of Adult Children of Divorce and The Co-Parenting Survival Guid
  • “If you’re suffering following a divorce or breakup, this outstanding book should be at the top of your reading list! Rebuilding combines compassionate insights with practical suggestions for finding healing.”
    Mark S. Rye, PhD, professor of psychology at Skidmore College, and coauthor of TheDivorce Recovery Workbook

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